😲 I'm bothering everyone in my life, aren't I?

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Dear 1-800-Bridesmaid,

I'm Hannah, a soon-to-be bride with what feels like an embarrassing problem. Ever since getting engaged, I've been overwhelmed with self-doubt about my wedding celebrations.

I've been avoiding planning a bachelorette party or bridal shower because I'm terrified they'll be awkward failures. I keep thinking about how few close friends I have compared to my fiancé, who seems to know everyone. My guest list is maybe 25 people while his is pushing 80. I worry people will notice this imbalance and judge me for it.

When I look at other brides on social media with their squads of bridesmaids and lavish parties, I feel like I'm doing this all wrong. I've even hesitated to ask my future mother-in-law to go dress shopping because I don't want to inconvenience her. And trying on dresses? Everyone talks about that magical moment when you find "the one" and cry tears of joy. I just see my flaws no matter what anyone tells me.

My mom thinks I need to "get over myself" and let people celebrate me, but it feels so uncomfortable being the center of attention. I keep wondering if people are only participating out of obligation rather than genuine excitement. What if my bridesmaids secretly resent the time and money they're spending? What if my small bridal shower looks pathetic?

I know these fears are probably irrational, but they feel very real. My wedding is supposed to be the happiest day of my life, but instead, it's bringing up all these insecurities I didn't know I had. How do I overcome this and actually enjoy this chapter of my life?

Help!

-Hannah

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