🤔Can I say no to the bachelorette party?

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Dear 1-800-bridesmaid,

I need advice about my younger sister's upcoming bachelorette party. She's planning a weekend in Miami with 8 bridesmaids, including me. The bride wants her fiancé and his groomsmen to join for parts of the celebration.

I'm anxious about this bachelorette party. They are going to party haaaaard and that’s not what I’m about. I don’t like being around drugs or alcohol. It makes me uncomfortable.

Last time I went out with this group, I ended up holding back hair, calling Ubers, and making sure no one lost their phone or wallet. I know I'll fall into the "mom" role again, taking care of everyone while they're having "fun." I love Megan, but I feel like I'm being set up for four days of stress and discomfort.

I've tried talking to Megan about my concerns, but she just laughs it off and says, "You need to learn to let loose! It's my bachelorette!" I don't want to be a buzzkill, but I also don't want to compromise my values or mental health.

Am I wrong to want to bow out of this bachelorette party?

-Kris

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