I think you should talk to him! For what it's worth, you've already been together for two years, so there must be some degree of compatibility here. I don't think you need to spiral. See if he's open to pre-marital counseling. Then, you can talk about these things without raising any red flags. A lot of couples do it and I've heard it's really helpful!
Communication is the key in a relationship. Tell him your doubts. He's not a mindreader. And maybe he's just a guy who's rational until a problem pops up or he's indecisive. You need to talk. Then you still can decide whether you're going to marry him or not.
I highly recommend premarital counseling before getting married! If you don’t know how he handles conflict, then marriage is not the time to learn or find out because in marriage there’s going to be conflict. And the fact that you don’t even know for sure if he wants children, is crazy. What have you guys been talking about all this time besides Netflix? Especially after getting engaged, why hasn’t there been more serious discussions? One red flag that I’ve noticed is that the two of you don’t have disagreements. Not saying that you both should be disagreeing about everything but do you really agree on everything? Marriage is not the “throw caution to the wind” type of situation. Start having some of these hard discussions now because you might see a different side of him that may give you pause!
I think you should talk to him! For what it's worth, you've already been together for two years, so there must be some degree of compatibility here. I don't think you need to spiral. See if he's open to pre-marital counseling. Then, you can talk about these things without raising any red flags. A lot of couples do it and I've heard it's really helpful!
Communication is the key in a relationship. Tell him your doubts. He's not a mindreader. And maybe he's just a guy who's rational until a problem pops up or he's indecisive. You need to talk. Then you still can decide whether you're going to marry him or not.
I highly recommend premarital counseling before getting married! If you don’t know how he handles conflict, then marriage is not the time to learn or find out because in marriage there’s going to be conflict. And the fact that you don’t even know for sure if he wants children, is crazy. What have you guys been talking about all this time besides Netflix? Especially after getting engaged, why hasn’t there been more serious discussions? One red flag that I’ve noticed is that the two of you don’t have disagreements. Not saying that you both should be disagreeing about everything but do you really agree on everything? Marriage is not the “throw caution to the wind” type of situation. Start having some of these hard discussions now because you might see a different side of him that may give you pause!