🤔Am I Making a Mistake?

1-800-Bridesmaid

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Dear 1-800-Bridesmaid,

I'm a bridesmaid for my friend wedding, which is coming up in just a month. Last weekend, we all went out to celebrate the one-month countdown to the big day.

Her fiancé, Vince*, had quite a few drinks and ended up confiding in me. I asked if he’s excited for the wedding and he said things like:

Ahh, yeah, I don’t know. Marriage is kind of scary.

Later, he said:

I hope i’m not making a mistake or anything.

I didn’t know how to respond so I just let him talk. He didn’t open up much more than that but kept saying things like that to me during our talk.

Vince hasn't mentioned anything about this conversation since that night. I'm torn about what to do with this information.

On one hand, I feel like maybe he was drunk and just feeling normal wedding nerves. But on the other hand, I’m wondering if there’s more that he was trying to say but didn’t get the chance.

I don't want to cause unnecessary drama, especially so close to the wedding. But I also feel a responsibility to my friend. Should I talk to Vince about it? Should I tell my friend? Or should I just keep quiet and assume it was just drunk talk?

Please help! I'm losing sleep over this.

-Dani

Let’s help Dani out.

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