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1000%. You are probably a kind person who helps and celebrates others. And it’s unusual that you have a day just about you and your husband. If something will stand in the way of your happiness, nip it in the bridal bud!

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How sad! I wonder if she hated the spotlight being on you rather than herself. And I hope your bridesmaid was able to get a refund for not being able to get her hair done. Amazed and appalled by this whole situation. I hope it didn't completely ruin the experience for you!

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100%. People don’t change just because you hope they will. Exactly. There's nothing wrong with putting the spotlight on someone else, because it's not always about you aka: It was about you and your husband that wonderful day (btw I hope it was still the best wedding day ever). It was not the gossip, not her, not anything. It's too bad that some people have a hard time when the attention is not on them. Wishing you all the happiness in the world (and thank goodness you cut her out of your life, with friends like that you don't need enemies.)

-Your Bridesmaid Bestie Alesha

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