I adhere to trusting the inner voice. Your inner voice is making noise about this. Ignoring it will only increase your stress.
If you tried to stuff it and did the job without talking with the bride, it would be eating at you all day, cause tension for you, and could distract you from being completely relaxed and focused to do your best work capturing precious memories for them.
Then, assuming all is well, on wedding day, you can be completely in your creative zone and just focus on doing your best most beautiful work with no churning stomache!
Dear J,
I think I would feel as you do. There seems to be some slight deception in play - your ex did not tell his fiancé that you and he had been a couple previously. He just acted as if you were old friends. I would be very uncomfortable with that.
I adhere to trusting the inner voice. Your inner voice is making noise about this. Ignoring it will only increase your stress.
If you tried to stuff it and did the job without talking with the bride, it would be eating at you all day, cause tension for you, and could distract you from being completely relaxed and focused to do your best work capturing precious memories for them.
How about first having a convo with your ex, tell him your feelings, tell him that you would like to 'come clean' with his fiancé, and then coordinate how you do that? Perhaps he may need to speak with her first privately.
Then, assuming all is well, on wedding day, you can be completely in your creative zone and just focus on doing your best most beautiful work with no churning stomache!
Warm Regards,
Eva
Charge him double and get all her best angles. Simple . He makes you feel weird by asking, his pockets pay