I know one of the options was “Go To Therapy” but I think couples therapy is the option I had in mind. Not trusting your partner hurts a lot of aspects of the relationship :(
Talk to a trusted person about it before you talk to your partner about it again. Bring it up to him and say that is the one non negotiable. I think being brutally honest is better at solving real issues than hiding ones fears.
Personally I don't think cheaters should get a chance. However he did confess, so I would try therapy. Also demand some kind of prenuptial term if he ever cheats he leaves with absolutely nothing because of emotional damage. Sorry I'm a petty person, but you should take care of yourself too. No lies, betrayal but trust. Talk to him about your doubts. And if he refuse to go to therapy then he's not worth your time.
I know one of the options was “Go To Therapy” but I think couples therapy is the option I had in mind. Not trusting your partner hurts a lot of aspects of the relationship :(
Talk to a trusted person about it before you talk to your partner about it again. Bring it up to him and say that is the one non negotiable. I think being brutally honest is better at solving real issues than hiding ones fears.
Personally I don't think cheaters should get a chance. However he did confess, so I would try therapy. Also demand some kind of prenuptial term if he ever cheats he leaves with absolutely nothing because of emotional damage. Sorry I'm a petty person, but you should take care of yourself too. No lies, betrayal but trust. Talk to him about your doubts. And if he refuse to go to therapy then he's not worth your time.