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Ashley's avatar

You've probably already done this, but maybe sit down with her and have a conversation about everything. Express your feelings and how you've felt, that she has not treated your relationship or your fiancé with the best reactions/respect. To me it sounds like you're sister is feeling left out or maybe as though she is losing you. In these times some people don't know how to regulate their emotions and feel out of control. Leaving them reacting in an ugly way instead of just expressing how they really feel. On top of that sometimes people can't put into words how they really feel. I would say you only have one sister and this is a moment that is once in a life time. Have the hard and truthful conversation with her and if it doesn't go well then that is your answer. On the contrary maybe there will be some break throughs and you guy can get through this and all will be great! Good-luck!

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Lirva's avatar

Don't forget sisters are there for life. Looks like you've had a little rift in the not so distant past but try not let it create anything bigger to separate you further. You can explain she hurt your feelings when she chose to belittle the man you love, but you would like her to know she's still very important to you - whether or not you have her as moh. ....Just trying to help you overlook the daily drama and focus on the big picture as you prepare to leave your personal family unit behind and make a unit of your choosing.....

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