He's cheating. But I don't have proof.

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Dear 1-800-Bridesmaid,

Dear Jen,

I'm reaching out to you because I'm facing a challenging situation as a bridesmaid in my best friend Sarah's upcoming wedding. I care deeply about Sarah and want the best for her, but recently, I heard something that has left me feeling uneasy and unsure of what to do.

Last week, a friend of a friend mentioned in passing that they thought they saw Sarah's fiancé, Michael, on a dating app. I was shocked and couldn't believe it at first, but the more I thought about it, the more I started to worry. I don't have any concrete evidence, and it could just be a misunderstanding or even a false accusation, but I can't shake the feeling that something isn't right.

I'm torn about whether I should say something to Sarah. I don't want to cause unnecessary drama or stress, especially with the wedding only a couple of months away. Sarah seems so happy and excited about marrying Michael, and I would hate to plant a seed of doubt in her mind without being absolutely certain.

At the same time, I feel like I have a responsibility as her friend to look out for her well-being. I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if I kept quiet and later found out that my suspicions were correct.

I've been losing sleep over this dilemma. I don’t know what to do. I want to be a good friend to Sarah and support her during this exciting time in her life, but I also want to protect her from potential heartbreak. Hoping someone can tell me WTF to do.

-Elyse

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